Stop playing small,

silencing your voice or

being the mediator in all of your relationships

Not just your romantic ones. 


YOUR MISSION:

Should you choose to accept it, is to design a step-by-step, individualized blueprint to become seen, heard, and valued in all your relationships within 90 days. 

Family, Friends and Flames. 

What you can expect
FIND OUT MORE WITH MY FREE MASTERCLASS
"Stop feeling like you're surviving instead of thriving."

"You’ve Built a Life of Success. Now it’s Time to Build a Love That Matches It."

Grow Your

Emotional courage and stop silencing your voice

Increase Your

Ability to be heard without constant interruptions 

Become Valued and Value Yourself

And learn the skills and tools to do it smoothly. 

What can you expect

I coach women who often over-give or feel they don't matter to become seen, heard, and valued in all their relationships

including parents, siblings, children, friends and lovers.

Imagine a relationship where you feel free to be yourself without fear of being ridiculed or dismissed, where you can dialogue more and fight less, and where you can change your sexual dynamic without shame, so that you don’t feel like you have to leave your relationship to feel valued, or stop being you.   

Stop playing small, swallowing your feelings, or hiding your intelligence to keep the peace and silence fears of being left. 

By the end of this "You Do You, I'll Do Me" program, you will have everything you need:

  1. Insight to stop falling into patterns that commonly keep women stuck,
  2. Ways to communicate so both of you feel understood,
  3. An updated belief system that is about who you are now, and
  4. A map to successfully change your sexual dynamic.

That’s all possible when you embark on the “You Do You, I’ll Do Me,” an 8-week program with Dr. Kerry O’Reilly, a trained psychoanalyst, woman-centered coach, and couples therapist with over 20 years of success helping women step into their authenticity. 

 

In this training, you will also

  • Identify the hidden barriers holding you back  — you’ll get personal support to identify and break through your own limiting beliefs, so you can attract and have the relationship you deserve.  
  • Identify the three major themes that prevent women from embracing their greatness: shame, isolation, and feeling not enough. 
  • Grow into the woman you want to be in your relationships without fear. And stop settling for inconsistency, mixed signals, temporary affection, passive-aggressive silences, and chaos disguised as friendship or love.
  • Experience love that feels aligned with who you are now, not who you thought you had to be, to be loved.

Stop feeling like you're not enough, that you don't matter, that you're too sensitive, or impossible to love.

Join me and learn how to feel as powerful at home in your relationship as you do in your work life.

Limited spots available. Program starts
Feb 4th at 8 am PST

Why not taking my course"You Be You, I'll Be Me" is a missed opportunity for women looking for the fastest and easiest way to have the lead role in their own life!

 

Success at Work Doesn't Have to Mean Silence at Home

You’ve mastered complex negotiations, led teams, and built success from the ground up. But in your personal life, you may still walk on eggshells to avoid conflict, suppressing your needs to keep the peace.

Not addressing this discrepancy perpetuates a split in your identity—strong in the boardroom, silent at the dinner table.

This course helps unify the parts of you that feel disconnected, so your inner authority can show up in love as powerfully as it does in your career.

Emotional Loneliness Doesn’t Resolve Itself with Time

Many women hope that if they’re just more patient, accommodating, or understanding, the emotional distance in their relationship will close.

But emotional neglect—whether subtle or glaring—rarely resolves without intentional change. Left unaddressed, it quietly erodes self-worth and perpetuates the ache of invisibility.

This course teaches how to address the disconnection directly, skillfully, and without self-abandonment.

You Shouldn’t Have to Choose Between Your Voice and Your Relationship

The belief that authenticity leads to abandonment is a legacy wound many women carry. But censoring your truth to keep a partner comfortable comes at the cost of intimacy, passion, and personal freedom.

This course offers you the tools to speak difficult truths with grace and strength, without blowing up your relationship—or yourself.

High Intelligence Without Emotional Alignment Breeds Burnout

You're used to solving problems through logic, strategy, and willpower. But relationships don’t respond to effort the same way careers do. Many high-achieving women feel secretly ashamed that, despite their competence, they can’t “figure out” love.

The truth? Emotional intelligence needs cultivation, too. Without it, you’re left managing everything alone, performing rather than connecting.

This course rewires how you relate, so love doesn’t feel like another job you’re failing at.

Time Doesn’t Heal What You Continue to Deny

Many women wait, hoping things will get better once the kids are older, work slows down, or their partner finally changes. But waiting often becomes a habit of self-abandonment.

This course invites you to stop postponing your emotional
well-being and start creating a relationship that reflects your full worth, depth, and truth, before another year passes in quiet dissatisfaction.

 3 key benefits you will experience after working with me

You will find your voice and bring back the vitality in your relationship

Reconnect with the parts of you that have gone numb or quiet—your sensuality, creativity, and joy—so you can feel fully alive in your relationship and in yourself.

 

Have Clarity About What You Truly Want 

Most women in stuck relationships haven’t paused to deeply examine what they actually want—beyond keeping things afloat. This course helps you uncover your true relational desires, so you stop settling and start aligning.

Get Relief from the Mental Loop of Self-Doubt

No more replaying conversations or second-guessing your tone, your timing, or your needs. You know who you are and won't apologize for it.

You’ll learn to trust your inner compass and respond instead of ruminate.

TAKE ME STRAIGHT TO THE 12 WEEK PROGRAM SIGN-UP

I know how painful it can be to feel like you’ve done everything “right” in life, and still feel

unfulfilled in love.

As a therapist and relationship coach who has helped countless high-achieving women break through the invisible barriers that keep them stuck,

I want you to know—there is nothing wrong with you. It is simply that you haven’t had the support, the space, or the guidance to grow into your most authentic self in love.

And you haven’t been given the tools to create a relationship that honors both your power and your heart. That’s what I’m here to change.
 

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